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Almost all of the female partners, on the other hand, were very tough. They were slavishly devoted to their jobs, regularly working until nine or 10 at Looling.

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Susannah Breslin, a writer based in Florida, yanked me out of obscurity years ago by promoting my work on her blog. Other women I interviewed, meanwhile, admitted that they had been tempted to snatch the Aeron chair out from under a female colleague.

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But other researchers have since published work that echoes theirs. As Joan C. If the only way to get ahead is to run like hell away from other women, some women are going to do that.

She might try to undermine her rival preemptively—as happened to one woman I interviewed, whose work friend spread rumors that she was promiscuous and unqualified. Or she might slam her rival with demeaning comments, as has fod to seven in 10 respondents to a survey of women working in the tech industry.

This kind of behavior can take a toll. She felt sick to her stomach and had trouble eating her lunch at work. About 15 years ago, Margarita Rozenfeld, who is now a leadership coach in Washington, D. One day on her way to work, T tripped on the parking-garage steps and twisted her ankle. It swelled as the day wore on, and she worried that it would get even worse.

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Six months later, she sach. C omplicating all of this is that, well, Looking for a women to help each other is in the eye of the beholder, and the term queen bee sometimes gets flung at women who are just trying to do their job. You could call it managing while female: Rudman first witnessed this tendency when she was a grad student at the University of Minnesota, where she sat on a hiring committee for an open professor position.

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In one of her experiments, women who doled out honest feedback were liked less and considered less hirable than similarly candid fach. So when people think, Who do I want to work with? Some women look around, see few women running things, and assume that there must be something wrong with women themselves. Indeed, Kim Elsesser, the UCLA lecturer whose study unearthed a preference for male bosses, pointed out another interesting wrinkle in that study: Participants were biased against women only when they were asked about the gender they ohter to work for in general.

When women do slip outside the lines vor behave assertively, other women are sometimes the ones who blast them for it.

In one series of studies, Rudman asked participants to pick teammates for a round of computerized Jeopardy. They could choose among insecure and confident men and women.